To be aware of one’s daily dishonesty, lies, vanity, self-centeredness, how ugly one is, and how it all plays out in relationships is to see one’s daily disorder. Why, when we see how violent, greedy and manipulative the world is, do we not set our minds to bring order in what we are called to do in this life, to be the change in the world in the most loving and supportive way we can? This means we have to see we are the conflict in the world, and that we let people down because our self-interest comes first. The path of a peaceful warrior is to love those who let us down and continue to be unaffected by their disorder because one is so in touch with one’s own disorder.
Athletes know the path of how people can learn so much by working together. But few take this path and use their sport to end conflict and war on this planet. The path first is to end it in oneself, which is to die to the great persons we think we are.
Playing in the Zone, self is not and the brain is in a state of constant learning. This is also true of love. To keep learning, you are never judging one’s own performance or anyone else’s. You simply tell them the truth, which is how their behaviour impacts you - full disclosure with love and kindness, expecting nothing back.
To be distinct you must be different and to be different you must be what no one else can be but you.
Are you into comfort or are you into stepping into nothingness and playing for the love of the game?
Give me feedback baby!! [Not your emotional content!!!]
Coach Bri

